I have watched a whole bunch of folks mourning the loss of someone in the community. I did not know her, so while I mourn her passing on one level (as part of the community), I do not have the visceral tearing feeling that many folks I see are experiencing. I am sorry, though - you do all have my condolences.
On a lighter note, there's a kid's song going through my head and making me giggle:
Tony Chestnut knows I love you, (toe knee chest nut(head) nose eye)
Tony Chestnut knows I love you,
That’s what Tony knows.
And his sister, Eileen (I lean)
Eileen loves Neil (kneel)
And Neil loves Pat (pat head)
But Pat still loves Bob (nod head)
Then there’s Russell (rustle)
And Skip (skip)
This song is silly,
But it’s hip (point to hip)
And in the end (point to bottom)
Just one man knows (nose)
And guess what (WHAT!)
It’s Tony Chestnut.